Getting a lot braver

I have bought a pair of oxfords with a low heel of about 3" I wear them almost anywhere, and are the heel you wear when you aren't wearing heels. As for my heeled hiking boots, I have taken a lot of walks where there are a lot of people but with my trousers rolled up by about 4" which shows the entire heel all the time. Yes some people did notice, and a few weeks ago was wolf whistled at. Kind of nice I suppose. Confidence is the key, but also confidence builds as you wear them by not receiving adverse comments. People just don't seem to do that. But it is important to wear heels suitable for the occasion, inso much as not wearing stilettos for normal day walking, loud colours,or somehow trying to make a statement. Being subtle I believe is what it is about. I have 9 pair of heels, but only four pair get to be worn out doors in public. The others are private such as my 5" stiletto court heels and my 6" peeptoe stilletos. They are all great fun. Happy heeling everyone